Do you want to be popular?
Do you want everyone to talk about you ?
In short, Do you want to stand out of the crowd in office or college ? 😀
If yes, I am afraid that you’re in a mess right now.
And If no, you’re good to go, Girl ! 😀
Now, lets talk about why does everyone want to be popular?
Because they want silly good_for_nothing followers.
I really hope that you want friends in your life, not followers who’ll leave you or stay with you according to their own convenience.
Because they want to be the coolest.
Now, it depends on person to person that how they perceive the definition of the “Coolest”. Some might find a useless bigmouth as the coolest one, or some would like the person with peppy clothes and spikes. Dude, these things hardly matter if you really want to make big in life. College or school is a very small place to prove your mettle, Trust me ! And, this thing won’t matter after 10 years or say 20 years.
Because they want everyone to know them.
.Ouch! Opinion of these silly naive children really matters too? They are literally nobody. I repeat, NOBODY. Neither, it will create any difference in future if they know you. They are just those people who just share same building with you when you’re in school or college or even, office. FAME MATTERS only when your salary depends upon it. Otherwise, nobody gives a SH*T.
Because of your personal reasons.
It might be a GUY, or girls from other enemy group. Bless you if you think that becoming popular will solve these problems. In fact, it will divert your energy in some least important matters. And as I said before, right person will come in your life at the right time, You don’t have to wait for it. You just got to have faith in your destiny.
Now, What is so wrong in being AVERAGE ?
I wish I knew that. :/
You got to understand that nothing is better than your “minding_my_own_business” attitude and simultaneously, channelizing your all energy to achieve your long term dream. The dream which will give you a purpose to live a happy and decent life. The dream which will actually make you stand out from the crowd. The dream which will ultimately become an inspiration to someone.
Be that INSPIRATION.
Your crush might become your boyfriend one day but nothing will give you more happiness than achieving your dream to become self-independent strong lady. You got to believe in yourself before believing in others opinion for you. And talking about love, it will ultimately find your way, you just got to have faith.
As Brandi Harvey rightly said,
YOU’RE ENOUGH, WITHOUT ANYONE ELSE’S STAMP, WITHOUT ANYONE ELSE’S VALIDATION OR APPROVAL.
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